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Her husband texted but did not respond; she simply told him she had made it home safely.When he got home, he was extremely angry at his wife and told her she was \u201cdisrespectful and juvenile.\u201d The OP told him that she had overheard what he said to his mother, but he still blamed her for eavesdropping and said his family was slowly warming up to her.<\/p>\n<p>In the end, the wife started feeling bad, thinking she might have ruined the vacation for everyone. Thus, she turned to fellow Reddit users and asked if she was right to leave the family vacation after she heard what her husband said about her.Contrarily, the OP\u2019s story had many commenters riled up. Readers believed the OP was right to leave because she overheard her mother-in-law speaking ill of her, and her husband did not defend her, which was a big red flag to many readers.Another commenter simply asked, \u201cDoes he even like you?\u201d while another added, \u201cNTA. 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